Premature Ejaculation Cure: A Hindrance to Sexual Activity

 

Premature ejaculation can be a frustrating thing for a lot of couples out there as it can reduce the amount of sexual activity and the intensity of it, this can lead to an unhappy sex life and make couples very withdrawn from each other. It is estimated that around 30 percent of men around the world suffer from premature ejaculation at some point in their life. It will cause distress to an individual when ejaculation occurs 30 seconds to 4 minutes into sexual intercourse when ejaculation happens within that short time frame it is considered that the individual might be suffering from premature ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation can cause sex to not feel as good. There are two types of premature ejaculation:

1) Lifelong (primary): – This starts early, usually in the teenage years of an individual who is also experiencing sexual contact for the first time in their life. This type of premature ejaculation is harder to treat and has deep psychological causes which are embedded into the individual. One of the main causes for lifelong premature ejaculation is masturbation very quickly to ejaculate and reach an orgasm in order to not get caught in the process.

2) Acquired (secondary): – This type of premature ejaculation occurs in the later stages of life and is normally triggered by psychological issues such as dealing with a lot of stress and also relationship problems or it can be from physical causes such as diabetes or even high blood pressure. This type is easier to cure than the lifelong (primary) premature ejaculation.

 

Techniques That Cure Premature Ejaculation

There are two main techniques that can help cure premature ejaculation but they might take a while to get used to. These techniques can also be known as behavioral strategies:

1) The start-stop technique: – This is an easy to do method that can be accomplished with a partner or even alone. The process of doing this technique is when you stop stimulating the penis just as you feel you are about to ejaculate. After stopping, take a break for about 30 seconds to one minute and then start again once the feeling of ejaculating is over. Try to repeat this process at least four to five times before you finally ejaculate when masturbating alone or consensually taking part in sexual activity with your partner. Start-stop every time you feel an orgasm arising, this will help elongate sex periods and can stop premature ejaculation, but when you are finally about to finish make sure that you let yourself ejaculate and reach euphoria.  Couples can find this process a little tiring and frustrating as they will have to take multiple breaks in between sexual activity. A piece of advice would be to concentrate on other ways to derive pleasure rather than sexual intercourse during the short start stop period.

2) Squeeze technique: – This technique is a little more complex and might be tougher than the start-stop method. This technique requires the squeezing of the area in between the shaft and the glans (tip of the penis) for about 30 seconds just before you ejaculate. This technique will help in preventing you from ejaculating but it could also affect your erection by causing the erection to lose its sturdiness, thus ending up with a softer erection until it is stimulated again. This technique can be repeated four to five times until you decide to finally ejaculate and to experience an orgasm. In order for this technique to be effective, it will have to be practiced and implemented for months, and it will also require massive perseverance from the man and his partner.

Both these techniques are very good in helping an individual identify the “point of no return”, this is the point at which ejaculation occurs. Now since the “point of no return” has been identified, the individual can decrease the intensity of sexual activity without having to implement either of the above-mentioned techniques and this will help in delaying an ejaculation. But both these techniques can be frustrating since they can disrupt the flow of sexual intercourse. Thinking about something else and even taking a deep breath when on the verge of ejaculating can delay orgasms by slowing ejaculation, when these concepts of distracting the mind are combined with the start stop and the squeeze techniques, they can be highly beneficial to an individual to stop premature ejaculation.

 

Treatments to Cure Premature Ejaculation

In most cases, premature ejaculation can get better on its own over time, and treatment may not even be needed. Distracting oneself or practicing relaxation techniques can help delay an ejaculation. Sometimes decreasing the intake of alcohol, tobacco, and drugs will help in improving the premature ejaculation. Antidepressants are normally prescribed to patients who suffer from premature ejaculation. Counseling can go a long way in curing premature ejaculation, psychotherapy and learning different ways to communicate with our partner will also help. Masturbation can help train your body to delay ejaculation wearing a thicker condom can also help as it will decrease the sensitivity at the tip of the penis.

Antidepressants for Premature Ejaculation
A side effect of using some antidepressants such as Sentra tine, Paroxetine, Fluoxetine and Escitalopram which are all selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI’s), is a delayed orgasm. These medications can take about five to ten days to start working but it might be a little longer (about three or four weeks) before you see the full effect. Other side effects of using antidepressants are nausea, perspiration, decreased libido and drowsiness.

Topical Anesthetics for Premature Ejaculation
Anesthetic creams or sprays contain a numbing agent, such as benzocaine, prilocaine, and lidocaine. These products will be applied to the penis about 10 or 15 minutes before taking part in sexual intercourse. When applied, they tend to reduce the sensation around the penis and will also help in delaying an ejaculation. Although anesthetics are very common to use and are very effective, they do have side effects. Some men have reported a temporary loss of sensitivity and decreased sexual pleasures, even female partners have reported the same thing.

Analgesics for Premature Ejaculation
Tramadol is a medication that is mostly used to treat people with pain. But tramadol does have a side effect which will cause a delayed ejaculation. Other side effects which are not needed would be headaches, nausea, dizziness and sleepiness.

 

Why Men Search for Premature Ejaculation Cure?

Many people would want to know why they suffer from premature ejaculation and can’t last long in the bed. Premature ejaculation can be caused by stress, relationship issues, and performance related anxiety or even the hypersensitivity of the penis. This is most common in men under the age of 35 and it normally tends to happen to men who are experiencing a new situation, such as a new relationship or even experiencing a stressful situation within a relationship. For example, if a man’s partner does not support him, but rather exacerbates his anxiety and fear of failure in bed. Differences in a couple’s sexual needs and a fear of high expectations can induce anxiety towards sexual activity affecting the satisfaction of one another and also can cause premature ejaculation for men.

Thyroid problems, abnormal hormone levels as well as inherited traits and abnormal reflex activity of the ejaculatory system can tend to be the chronic and long term. Inflammations of the prostate and of the urethra are both extreme acute conditions that will cause a temporary premature ejaculation for men. In certain very rare cases, injury or trauma to the nervous system and the withdrawal from certain drugs can also cause premature ejaculation. Staying away from most drugs and leading a healthier lifestyle and practicing yoga to help relax the mind can help in curing premature ejaculation.

The actual true causes of premature ejaculation are still being investigated and are not fully understood though, this is due to the lack of research and data that has been conducted on this condition, but also the underlying psychological factors make it hard to identify a clear cause. In general, it is noted that when a number of different techniques and treatments are all implemented together it helps in curing premature ejaculation.

 

 

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